My Self-Care Menu

Here are a few items on my self-care menu that help me get through life even when it feels like it is falling apart.

What I’ve learned in 2021

This is a self-reflection list I make every December and quite enjoy it. Helps me pause and ground myself. Read mine and maybe also make yours 🙂

Quotes From The Book I Decided To Live As Me

I Decided To Live As Me is an illustrated non-fiction bookWritten as a to do list for everyone struggling with adulting in today's world Translated from KoreanIts goal is to comfort its readers as they figure out for themselves who they are and what life means for themBTS Jungkook recommended book You can read my…

How To Practice Consent Beyond The Bedroom

Sexual consent, sadly, still needs A LOT of awareness. However, this post is not about that. It is all about the ways we should open up our minds and incorporate consent in to other parts of our lives.

Have You Ever Felt ‘Used’ By Someone?

What's a good way to articulate the experience or feeling of being 'used' by someone without using the word 'used'?

Identity And Habits: How You Describe Yourself Is Powerful

The words that we choose to describe ourselves with are powerful. They give us, not just a sense of purpose, but also let us relate with others. They do one more thing.

What Does The Full Moon Bring Out In You?

We are not werewolves, I know. But it is said that the full moon brings out whatever is hidden inside of a person. From positive emotions to negative, the full moon is said to highlight the things you try to suppress.

Why Being An Open Book Is Not Good Advice

Never once fearful or anxious, I always told people like it is. All my feelings and all my thoughts. No filters, no restraint. I thought it was the best way to be. Now, I am telling you it is the worst. And here's why.