Hold a goodbye card before you enter into any kind of relationship with a person. It’s a card I never held and it led to a decade of unhealthy relationships and some plentiful sprinkles of trauma.
Never once fearful or anxious, I always told people like it is. All my feelings and all my thoughts. No filters, no restraint. I thought it was the best way to be. Now, I am telling you it is the worst. And here's why.